After getting into serious stuff like spiritual healing, hypnosis and NLP, I have been discovering the signs of spiritual awakening, which always make myself a better person than I used to be and reach a higher spiritual level.
Usually there is nothing I can't handle, even if the conflicts with my family members, who are hard nuts to crack. Every time I'm able to solve problems with my hypnosis and psychological skills. However, I fed up with dealing with such toxic family relations all the time. Therefore, I have made a big decision of consulting a psychologist regarding my family traumas and how they affect my love life.
I'm not sick! Consulting a psychologist doesn't mean someone is sick, it's just for whoever wants a better life. There is nothing to feel ashamed about to consult a psychologist. People who lack understanding just take it wrong.
I'm not going to say I have no problems. Every person has their own problems as an individual and nobody is perfect. Thus there is really "nobody" who doesn't need consultations. Most of psychologists themselves have been to psychologists. As a witch, or whatever I can be called in spiritual healing industry, I also have my own healer, who is my senior.
One of my friends, who is a female clinical psychologist, still keeps going for consultation with her psychologist and healer, even if as a professional. I heard an interesting story about her healer: This woman also used to have toxic family relations just like mine, her mother always humiliated her whenever she saw her. However after years of her psychological experience, now she has amazing family relations with her parents.
I'm aware that I can't change my parents. Every person has grown up at different times and in different manners, they also gain different experiences while growing up. As a mature adult, I could focus on making changes in myself, as I'm more flexible and adaptable as a new generation.
Of course I'm able to help some people, well there is really nothing like "the most professional" in these industries. Due to the wide ranges of knowledge, they require constant learning with no limits in order to work with clients better. As I have barriers in family and relationship matters myself, I need supervision from a senior to deal with such matters, so that I can avoid taking my clients to the wrong track due to my own subjective problems.
The main reason that I would like a consultation is to solve my problems from the root with objective and fair diagnosis by a psychologist I didn't know before, what I usually do only helps solve them temporarily. It drives me crazy if this happens all the time. I only deal with clients with stable and peaceful mood to help them gain the best results, and I will only send them the most positive energy from me!
